How it works

Three simple steps to clearer friendships.

How it works

Three simple steps to clearer friendships.

See your friendships clearly.

See your friendships clearly.

See your friendships clearly.

Your relationships shape your life. Most of us were never taught how to understand them.

Your relationships shape your life. Most of us were never taught how to understand them.

Your relationships shape your life. Most of us were never

taught how to understand them.

MEET BAO

Bao learns as you do.

Bao learns as you do.

Your reflection companion inside Friend Check.

Bao mirrors your energy. What fills you, what drains you. The more you get to know yourself, the more Bao takes shape.

No two Baos grow up the same.

How it works

Understand your relationships and make better decisions about where your energy goes.

01

Check in

Log how each moment actually felt — in under a minute.

One tap after any hangout

02

See what's really there

Your interactions become clear patterns: what energizes you, what drains you, what keeps repeating.

Patterns become clearer over time

03

Know your next move

Vent freely and get practical guidance before your next conversation — boundaries, repair, or protecting your energy.

Why clarity matters

23%

in toxic friendships feel burned out

1 in 3

have had a toxic or draining friendship

1+

hours the avg person interacts with others daily

1

years can be added by positive relationships


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The Tea

How it works

Three simple steps to clearer friendships.

01

Check in

Log the moments that shape the relationship.

After you spend time with someone, record how the interaction left you feeling. Add a quick note so Friend Check can learn what energizes you, what drains you, and what keeps repeating.

Takes less than a minute

02

Understand the relationship

See what is really happening beneath the surface.

Friend Check turns your interactions into clearer insight. Explore patterns, values, friendship scores, alignment, what works best, and the dynamics shaping the connection.

Patterns become clearer over time

03

Know your next move

Get guidance for what to do next.

Use Friend Forecast before your next hangout or whenever you need clarity. Get practical guidance for communicating, setting boundaries, strengthening the friendship, or protecting your energy.

Clarity before the next conversation

01

Check in

Log the moments that shape the relationship.

After you spend time with someone, record how the interaction left you feeling. Add a quick note so Friend Check can learn what energizes you, what drains you, and what keeps repeating.

Takes less than a minute

02

Understand the relationship

See what is really happening beneath the surface.

Friend Check turns your interactions into clearer insight. Explore patterns, values, friendship scores, alignment, what works best, and the dynamics shaping the connection.

Patterns become clearer over time

03

Know your next move

Get guidance for what to do next.

Use Friend Forecast before your next hangout or whenever you need clarity. Get practical guidance for communicating, setting boundaries, strengthening the friendship, or protecting your energy.

Clarity before the next conversation